Hey everybody! It's been a while, hasn't it? Well there is so much that has been going on with me, and I just got a little breathing space :-D.
One of the most awkward thing is a very odd and not to mention irritating comment from an ex; you see I don't make it a habit of calling my exes or being friends with them, I mean why would you want to keep in touch with someone who deliberately hurt you and is not sorry about it? So this particular dude and I were chatting on the phone (I called), it was a way of me trying to be nice after he helped me speak to the HR of his office about a position for a friend; along the line he blurted out "I hope you are not trying to get back ". I was shocked! I mean he left me, it was a cold and mean break up, so why would I want to go back to a cold person?
I guess the reason why I am so upset about it is because he said it with an accusatory tone, you know; I actually have a lot friends who are very close with their exes, I know they didn't have this sort of experience. I mean what should a lady do in such a situation? I don't talk to him anymore, I even went as far as not wishing him a happy birthday on his birthday on Facebook.
I was trying to turn a new leaf , like be a better person and all that, I am not famous for being friendly after being wronged. Guys what do you think about the whole situation? When an ex-girlfriend is being friendly is that code for "let's give it another shot".
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